Two things I don't like : An over dependent Lady and a Lady that doesn't know how to cook
For a Lady not knowing how to cook, one or more factors must have come into play. It's either :
- She has been cuddled and fed all through ..... Something which I personally dislike
-She was never taught how to cook and therefore just figured that teaching Herself something so necessary and worthwhile was just not ... well ... worthwhile.
-She was and is still too lazy to learn how to cook
Just one question before I proceed : How can someone in this modern day and age navigate life without ever learning one of the most fundamental, useful, and creative skills known to man?
Well, I won't mind if a Lady can't cook, but is willing to put in the required effort to learn.
What I do mind is a Lady not knowing how to cook, but refuses to learning and suggests hiring a maid or living off take-out food
Sure I can cook a bit, will learn new recipes and will cook when She's inconvenienced, but why turn it into a full-time job or hire a maid when I have a wife?
If She doesn't cook for Me, what then does She have to offer?
Think about this for a second. If you have reached the age of 25 and you don't know how to whip up a decent meal for yourself, what do you think that says about you as a person, much less a potential relationship partner? Does it indicate that you've just been so busy with your education and your worklife that you haven't had the time to learn to create a basic dish for yourself to eat?
You might hate it. But if you do hate it, then it's my opinion that you lack a certain type of romance , plain and simple.
Cooking requires heart. It demands that you give a damn about someone else, the person or person(s) you are cooking for
You might as well say : " Well, I don't have much heart or interest in fundamental things that show people I care about them!"
If you want a guy to bend over backwards for you, be willing to do the same for him. Learn how to cook for Him
For a Lady not knowing how to cook, one or more factors must have come into play. It's either :
- She has been cuddled and fed all through ..... Something which I personally dislike
-She was never taught how to cook and therefore just figured that teaching Herself something so necessary and worthwhile was just not ... well ... worthwhile.
-She was and is still too lazy to learn how to cook
Just one question before I proceed : How can someone in this modern day and age navigate life without ever learning one of the most fundamental, useful, and creative skills known to man?
Well, I won't mind if a Lady can't cook, but is willing to put in the required effort to learn.
What I do mind is a Lady not knowing how to cook, but refuses to learning and suggests hiring a maid or living off take-out food
Sure I can cook a bit, will learn new recipes and will cook when She's inconvenienced, but why turn it into a full-time job or hire a maid when I have a wife?
If She doesn't cook for Me, what then does She have to offer?
Think about this for a second. If you have reached the age of 25 and you don't know how to whip up a decent meal for yourself, what do you think that says about you as a person, much less a potential relationship partner? Does it indicate that you've just been so busy with your education and your worklife that you haven't had the time to learn to create a basic dish for yourself to eat?
You might hate it. But if you do hate it, then it's my opinion that you lack a certain type of romance , plain and simple.
Cooking requires heart. It demands that you give a damn about someone else, the person or person(s) you are cooking for
You might as well say : " Well, I don't have much heart or interest in fundamental things that show people I care about them!"
If you want a guy to bend over backwards for you, be willing to do the same for him. Learn how to cook for Him
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