Want to know how to get the guys drooling over you without even trying? Read on for the male perspective on turning guys on every time.

It’s one thing to turn a guy on once he’s in the bedroom—after all, guys are pretty easy to please. A quick fumble, a slip, and a shot, and we think we’re the greatest lovers that the world has ever seen! It is, however, an entirely different thing to catch our attention to the same degree at an earlier stage in the evening.

Not that a pretty face will go entirely unappreciated, but turning him into a raging ball of lust through the use of feminine wiles alone takes a whole different skill set. If you’re in the market for a fairly comprehensive list of male turn-ons that you can use to get the man you’re interested in out of your sights and into your bed, then read this list of 20 tips, divided into the five categories of Dress, Body Language, Talk, Touch, and Other.

DRESS

#1 A good choice of particulars. The correct choice of underwear can be a massive turn-on for guys. Sheer panties, for instance, with no visible lines to hint at the promise of already having been removed.

#2 None of the above. With regard to the previous entry, less is definitely more. The only thing that is better than S3@.x:’y underwear is NO underwear. The outstanding delights of a forsaken bra are bound to put some lead in his pencil.

#3 War paint. A good smattering of makeup is also another point of attraction for guys. It sends out little signals to his subconscious—little hints that you are up for more than just a polite conversation and a game of chess. That lipstick on the glass might seem innocent to you, but in his mind, that glass is being replaced with all kinds of other images. Just make sure it isn’t the kind of makeup you wear to go and see grandma.

#4 Heels. A great part of S3@.x:’ual attraction is making the most of traits unique to your gender. Drawing a man’s eyes to your legs, through the use of a pair of high heels is a time-tested example of exactly this.

BODY LANGUAGE

#5 Lip-licking good. The tongue is an extremely sensual part of the body, and any display of it will have temperatures soaring. Licking the lips takes it a whole stage further, and don’t be surprised if he’s unable to get up from his seat for a while.

#6 The Sharon Stone. The classic knee-crossing move of movie legend, you don’t have to remove your panties to have the object of your desires panting like a labradoodle.

#7 The leaning-to. If your greatest assets are found on the upper half of your body, make the most of them. An indiscreet lean forward at the right time can give him an eyeful of trouser-popping glory and get him firmly on your S3@.x:’ual hook. Taxi!

#8 The lean-off. A similar principle to #7, but this time taking advantage of a well-shaped posterior. The trick is to lean away and ensure that he gets an eyeful of wiggling wonderment.

TALK

#9 The Scarlett Johansson. The second actress to make an appearance on the list, the Scarlett describes that husky way she has of talking that, for some unknown reason, has males wilting like summer spinach. Give it a try, ladies. It works.

#10 Sharing fantasies. Slyly introduce the subject of fantasies into the conversation, and then use that as an excuse to introduce some of your own in an innocent and hesitant manner. They don’t even have to be real, but they will have him hanging on your every word.