Now and days, ladies are more materialistic than men. ladies tend to spend more both on  valuables and non-valuables,  women do this to bring out their beauty ranging from buying items for  make up to  fine dress and expensive  hair like Brazilian hair, human hair and the likes. I once meet a lady who said she can never use ten thousand naira to make her hair because it will be too cheap for her person. Another lady told me “how expensive you look is how expensive men approach you”. Hold on! Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with looking expensive but that’s not a good reason for not starting a relationship. Most women end up being single mother or baby mama because such mindset but am sent to help you today just continue reading.
The three major reasons why relationship last is not just about money, it is commitment, hope, and love. The fact is, no great man have all his plans together from day one, we have seen example in great men around the world, the likes of Messi, Mark Zuckerberg and many more. As a man, the presence of someone who believes in them can bring a man so many things.
Sister! Do not look down on his financial status but look down on his mentality.  Confused? Relax lemme explain. When I make mention of not looking down on his financial status, I do not mean you should allow yourself to be used, no matter how broke he is, make him take some responsibility, this will help you both as it will get him a sense of being responsible for someone.
Not looking down on his mentality means that you should be sure he is not “mummy’s boy” you still don’t get? I mean, you should be sure his a man that knows what he want and always have a plan on how to go about getting what he want all by himself. With this you can be rest assure cause if he want a roof over you and him for rest of his life, he will have to know how to go about it and you will support him to ensure you both enjoy success.


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